Change

I was reading some heavy funda stuff on love and commitments etc the other day.

I disntinctly remember, it said that when a person is in need of cataclysmic change, of a whole new center in personality, for instance, his or her psyche would induce an infatuation, an erotic attachment, an intense falling-in-love. Analyst say falling in love was the oldest, most ruthless catalyst on earth.

But dont we typically fall in love with something missing in our selves (or our lives!)?
Our 'that' special loved one cant give something that is not already ours.
When we truly find love, we find ourselves.

We often fear the thing we want the most.

And then we cry for someone who does not deserve our tears because the deserving one would never let you cry. S0, why cry for someone, why let them be a priority in your life, when you are just an option for them?!

Life begins at the end of our comfort zone.